the Self Study Papers
Welcome to the blog by the Duality Project. We're so glad you're here. Within these papers, you'll find stories, explorations of ideas, emotions, and learnings. Take what you need and leave the rest.
Storytime with Kate
I felt so seen when a friend sent me an article a few years ago about how caterpillars turn into a goopy nutrient dense soup-like substance inside the chrysalis before they turn into a butterfly.
and maybe you've forgotten this from 7th grade science class like I absolutely...
Storytime with Ruby
Storytime with Kate
As Ruby said in last week's newsletter: Life really be life-in', dontcha think?
*you'll notice words highlighted in yellow below: they are some of the themes of the My Self Study Practice - they're highlighted like this to show you how they've show up in real time for me...
Howdy,
Life really be life-in', dontcha think?
Sometimes it feels like: if it's not one thing, it's another.
The typical duties and responsibilities (ie laundry, dishes, groceries, bills, work) PLUS the ongoing curveballs (sickness, injury, accidents, transition, loss) mean that sometimes living...
Storytime with Kate
the Self Study Program is a practice of becoming the person you've always needed.
That could actually be the end of the post!
I'll elaborate:
On an IG live the other day I shared this little nugget that...
Kate and I have been talking a lot about the lie of *READY*.
Personally, I've never felt ready for any leap in my life... I've just felt a tug and leaned in.
But in all those instances of not feeling ready for the leap, I have known I was ready for something. That ...
Storytime with Kate
I woke up to two texts this morning from men in my life:
One from my friend Matt that was a link to Pink's song Trustfall
And the second was from my friend Russell that said, "IT'S A BEAUTIFUL DAY!"
And so I'm sitting here, writing to you, listening to Pink sing...
hiya,
When was the last time you did something for the first time?
I'll go first.
This weekend I skied for the very first time.
I took lessons in the morning, and honestly I was exhausted halfway through the lessons. By lunch I didn’t think I could handle taking a lift to the real...
Storytime with Kate
hi friend, I want to put this work into perspective for you,
What Ruby and I get so often when people are deciding whether or not to join the Self Study Program is, "what is it?!"
And as ABSOLUTELY CRINGE this sounds yall, it's a journey.
We can't promise you'll...
hiya,
I wanna keep this short and sweet, so I'm gonna dive right in...
I am so proud to say that in the lives of my clients, friends, and myself, we've really been showing how much we've grown lately! Specifically when it comes to leaning into a new way of being or a brave new...
Storytime with Kate
y'all, I've sat down 5 times this week to write this newsletter.
And here I am, the final hour of the final day of this week, trying again... nothing like coming up on a deadline to get something done.
I've struggled to write a newsletter this week...
Storytime with Ruby
Hi there,
Is it just me, or has self help become unbearably boring?
Everywhere I turn it's "7 steps to turning your life around for good" and "75 hard your way to greatness" and literally every imaginable self-help equivalent of the 90's diet culture champion: "nothing tastes...